Chloe’s Inbox – “Friends with benefits” simply means that you are not good enough to be with

January 13, 2020

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  Good afternoon DJ Chloe,

  Silent reader po ako ng Chloe’s Inbox and avid listeners ng station niyo. Ito na po, meron ako karelasyon katapat lang ng building na pinagta-trabahuan ko. Three (3) years na po kami. Single father po siya with plus two (2). At ako ay single mother din. Sa three (3) years namin, walang malinaw na usapan kung mag-ano ba kami. Never namin napag-usapan kahit na may nangyayari na sa amin. Ayoko naman na sa akin manggaling. Never kami nag “I love you” sa isa’t-isa, kahit gusto ko pero pinipigilan ko. Baka kasi mareject lang ako. Nagkaka text naman kami every day at siya naman ‘tong unang nagme-message sa’kin. Nitong huli parang nagkaroon ako ng realization after may mangyari ulit sa’min. Hindi ko masabi rekta sa kanya kaya tinext ko nalang. I asked, “Ano ba ako sa’yo? Side chic o f*ck buddy? ” And he replied, “kumain ka na.” After niyan ‘di na ako sumagot. Kailangan ko na ba bumitaw, kahit ayaw ng puso ko?

   

  Salamat. Sana mpansin mo ang sulat ko. Ano kaya ibig sabihin ng hindi niya pagsagot sa tanong ko?

  Hi girl!

  I really hate to tell you this but based from the answer you got from him, believe me the next thing or move is a good exit from what you both have. You are convenient for him, simply because he gets what he wants from you without him having any obligations with you, and you agreed to his terms without even saying it. Kumbaga, it happened already, it keeps happening, and you’re okay with it. Someone told me kapag “FUBU”set up daw, bawal maghangad, bawal ma-inlove. It’s good enough that you started realizing things, at the end ikaw ang talo. You will crash and burn specially because you’re starting to fall in love. Women are very different from men, the more we get physical with a man, the more comfortable we get with them and thus it leads to having attachment already. Malalaman mo na lang in love ka na. Sa romcom lang nangyayari usually ang mga FWB na nauuwi sa love story. In real life, it usually just ends because someone started complicating it. So, while you’re not pregnant yet, tigilan mo na ‘yan. As in stay away from him, sakit ang makukuha mo d’yan. People who are into casual sex are highly prone to STD, worse—HIV. So if you love yourself, respect yourself enough to not do this again, pahalagahan mo sarili mo at katawan mo. Para pahalagahan ka rin ng tamang lalaki para sa’yo.

  

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