Follow Your Dreams Not Men

November 27, 2017

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  Good morning. In our office, Easy Rock is our default radio station. We are a fan especially of Chloe’s Inbox. My concern is this, in a month now, I will be getting married. But two (2) months ago, a woman came forward, messaged me, telling that she and my fiancé were having an affair. I investigated and when I confronted my fiancé with all the evidence, he confessed. He asked for forgiveness and wooed me. We had many counseling sessions and later I forgave him. However, just yesterday, someone messaged me again telling me that her best friend is CURRENTLY having a sexual relationship with my fiancé. The woman who messaged me is the mistress of my fiancé’s best friend. I confronted again my fiancé, but this time, he is denying everything. I am really confused and I don’t know what to do. I do hope for your wisdom. Thank you and more power.

  Regards,

  Ms. Soon-to-be Lawyer

  You are a soon-to-be lawyer, consider your bofriend as your client, nakapatay…or you know for a fact guilty siya? What do you do then? Ano ba dapat niyong gawin bilang mga abogado? Ipagtatanggol pa rin, ‘di ba? So malamang sa tunay na buhay, applicable ba ito? Maari. You have to weight all sides.

  But come to think of it, inamin niya na sa’yo, eto na naman, aamin pa ba siya uli? Siguro hindi kasi double whammy na. Nakakahiya na sa’yo, sasaktan ka na naman niya, aamin siguro kung may ebidensya ka na naman.

  So ano ‘to? Anong future ng relasyon niyo at ng pagsasama niyo? Palagi na lang may cross examination sa kuwarto niyo? Kaya mo pa bang magtiwala even after learning of all his infidelities, considering he might do it again?

  Or don’t you think this is a clear sign not to push thru? Sayang ang invitation, sayang ang gown, preparation and all. It’s up to you, it’s your future anyway that’s involved.

  Eto lang ‘yan, dear, ang lalaki maari kang iwanan, ang career hindi. ?

  

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