Funny is the new gwapo!

July 29, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  I just want to seek your advice as well as the advices of your listeners. I am 33 years of age now and never been tried to be in a relationship even for once. May mga sinubukan akong ligawan pero I am laways on the friend-zone. Kahit on the first move pa lang nu’ng mga una, I always say na may someone better pa na darating but I am starting to feel hopeless na. For the reason na for the 10 ladies na tinry ko ligawan lagi ako basted. I know na ‘di ako ganun ka-gwapuhan or ka-macho as an ideal boyfriend to someone but I am trying to be a good person as I can be kasi ‘yun na lang ‘yung meron ako if ever. I am so depressed now and I am always questioning kung ano bang mali sa akin at wala nagkakagusto.

  Aminado ako tahimik ako na klase ng tao na maybe bored kasama but I can easily get along naman. Medyo may pagkatorpe ng konti kasi nga dun sa mga expreriences ko na laging nare-reject na medyo natatakot na mangyari pa ulit. Help me naman po kasi I meet this another woman na nasa kanya ‘yung mga qualities na nakita ko na rin sa iba and magkaibigan na po kami ngayon. I admit na gusto ko na siya pero natatakot ako umamin kasi at back of my mind baka mareject uklit at masira din friendship namin like the others na tinry ko ligawan. I want to confess to her pero may fear na ako na nararamdaman.

  Hi Mr. M!!!

  I know of someone, naging kaibigan ko siya, tagal niyang bachelor. Biglang nalaman ko nag-asawa na, kumuha ng bata to keep up daw with his appetite.

  Few years after nakita ko, tatlo na anak, losyang na si bachelor. I asked how he is, eto daw, daming problema na problema ng iba.

  Enjoy your being single, sir, kasi alam mo, if it is God’s will for you to have someone in your life, that person will find its way to you.

  Hindi rin madali ang may ka relasyon, lalo ang may asawa.

  Hindi lang tao ang kukumpleto sa’yo, find a hobby, or a passion, something that you will find fulfillment in doing. If you’re okay professionally, maybe you can find it in your heart and time to now help our fellow Filipinos. Volunteer. Sabi nga if you can’t feed a thousand, feed at least one, ang daming nangangailangan ng tulong natin. Helping people can make you happy, you know. This might take your mind off for a while of finding someone, who knows baka sa ganyang linya mo pa siya makilala. Hindi lang looks ang labanan din kasi minsan eh, are you by the way financially appealing to women? Stable ka na ba, sir? If I were you pahinga mo muna puso mo sa paghahanap, hayaan mong kusang dumating.

  Dagdag ko lang, kuya, work on your sense of humor, sabi nga daw eh, “if you can make woman laugh, you can do anything to her.” Try mo.

  

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