I Have A Major Concern To My Husband

March 17, 2017

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  Dj chloe…

  I’m really your no. 1 fan. Please, please, please, hide my identity. That’s why I’m writing on your messenger personally and hope that tomorrow this is featured in your Chloe’s Inbox.

  I’m 39 years old, just got married this year. My boyfriend, now husband, just got home from Canada to marry me. He’s is my college classmate and we  became a couple for almost two years only talking and knowing each other thru online. Since he is my classmate of course I really do know who really he is. I know everybody will notice that my husband is a little bit malambot kumilos or we can say na he is silahis. For me it’s not important because he doesn’t even have any records to prove that he is silahis. The only thing I know, he has lots of male friends. A lot. The problem is we are married now and he’s here for almost 10 days at walang nangyayari sa’min. I don’t know, DJ Chloe. First week is given because I have period but now that I’m free and ready wala pa rin siyang paramdam. Just yakap at good night kiss. DJ Chloe, bakit ganun? One month pa naman siya dito at gusto ko nang magka-anak sa kanya. Is there something wrong ba sa husband ko or maniniwala na ‘ko sa sinasabi ng iba? Nahihirapan ako i-open sa kanya kasi nahihiya ako. Help me, DJ Chloe at whatever na payo meron ka gagawin ko. DJ Chloe, my worry is baka makabalik na siya sa canada ng walang nangyayari sa’min kasi one of my reasons kaya pinakasalan ko siya ay magkaanak kami which is ‘yun din naman sinasabi niya sa’kin. Thanks.

  Mrs. L

  Hi, Mrs L!

  Well ,you have a month to find out.

  Baka naman nananantya pa siya. Pero, you know what, a man is a man. Ang lalaki ay lalaki kahit nga may period ‘di ka patatawarin niyan lalo’t asawa mo (we’re being so real here J).

  Well, as I’ve said, you have one month to find out. If you want you can initiate, if he resists, dear, positive. J Kasi ang lalaki, hahahahaha, innate silang matataas ang libido eh. Kahit nga may mga karamdaman na ‘yan at hindi na capable eh mag-aattempt pa ang mga ‘yan. I know of someone who married a guy really old, 89 years old na daw si tatang eh talagang sumusubok pa, hahahaha!

  Hindi naman masama mag-initiate lalo’t asawa mo naman. From there you will find out. Try!

  One more thing, nagpakasal ka para magka-anak. What if, ‘di kayo magkaanak? Marry someone because you love him with or without the capacity to have kids. Sabi ng pari nu’ng nakikinig ako sa isang seminar, the purpose of marriage is procreation. But what if ‘di kayo bigyan ng anak? Ano papaanak ka sa iba?

  Sana kinilala mo munang maigi. Mas mahal pa ang gastos sa annulment kesa sa pagpapakasal. :)

  

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