Is He For Keeps?

August 30, 2017

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  It’s me again. ‘Yung may problem sa boss. But today I am writing to you not because of my boss but because of my husband. We had been together for eight years and this year has been so tough that now I am experiencing too much sadness in this relationship. By the way, we are not married. We can’t get married Kasi I was married before. My ex left me for another woman. Now I just want to ask if is it already called cheating kung mahuli mo husband mo asking details with “walkers” at Facebook? Nahuli ko na kasi four times na. But he told me never siya gumamit ni isa sa kanila. Now, at this 4th time I want to leave him but he said sisirain niya na lang buhay niya. Babalik siya sa bisyo niya at ‘di na magtatrabaho. Magiging pasaway sa mga magulang niya. Ayoko naman sisihin ako ng family niya na nasira buhay ng anak nila dahil sa akin. He’s so childish. I don’t know what to do with him. Every time he says sorry, I no longer believe him. I told him he knew how it feels being treated this way kasi niloko siya ng ex niya. Now he’s doing it to me. Please help me kasi I’ve been trying to save this relationship which I cherish every single day. Thanks for reading my letter.
  Kate

   

  Well Kate, if he is asking details because he works with the authority and they are planning an entrapment operation, eh pwedeng maintindihan mo pa. Pulis ba siya? NBI ba siya?  Hindi naman yata. So anong purpose? Gumagawa siya ng survey report? Or pinag-iipunan niya para ma afford niya?

  Granting that he is curious about it, you caught him four times already, right?  So anong excuse niya na naman this time? And did you buy it again?

  Well, sabi mo nga you want to leave him but he is threatening na sisirain niya ang buhay niya…hahahaha. Emotional black-mail? Seryoso naniniwala ka?

  Sirain niya man ang buhay niya, it’s not at all your fault, it’s his decision! Let him be.

  Why don’t you try it? So you’d know if gagawin niya ngayon?

  I doubt it. Unang gagawin niya magchat sa walker na sinasabi mo at alamin agad ang details nila.

  Haaay!! What a crazy world we live in! Don’t ever underestimate a man’s ability to make you feel guilty for his mistakes.

  

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