Let Go Of The Memories

August 15, 2016

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  I need an advice po. Paano po ba mag-move on ng tuluyan? Hindi po kasi ako maka-move on sa memories namin ng naging boyfriend ko for almost five years. Kasal na po siya ngayon sa girl na naging reason ng break-up namin at may boyfriend na rin naman po ako ngayon. ‘Di ko na po siya mahal but nahihirapan po akong  i-let go ‘yung mga memories namin. What should I do po?

  Thanks in advance po and more power sa program niyo and sa Easy Rock.

  Annie

  Hi, Annie!!!

  You can find a lot of tips and how-to’s kahit sa Google lang. Some of them are really helpful.

  Sometimes it helps a lot to read about your situation because there is always something written about the same situation as yours.

  There is no telling as to when you can really move on. Sabi nila when you get to think about it, the past, the person and it doesn’t hurt anymore, then that’s the time you can say that you have already moved on.

  For some people, finding a new love can make you forget about an old love.

  But some people choose to stay imprisoned in the past. Truth be told, sometimes we don’t miss the person anymore. It’s the memories that we miss and that’s what’s happening to you.

  Your mind can’t keep running in circles .. and your heart cannot deny the truth.

  I would say let go of your boyfriend, he deserves someone who is not consumed with someone else. And as for you, maybe you need to spend more time with yourself. Discover yourself,  devote your time and self to a cause and love yourself to the fullest by deciding to finally stop beating yourself up with the past.

  

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