Let go of the things that do not bring you joy

March 18, 2019

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  Hi I am an avid fan of yours. Gusto ko lang ask ng advice. After 23 years, before we met again ng high school sweetheart ko, we were separated both. Currently he is filing a case against his wife because of such illicit affair with the other man and ako naman po ay single mom na rin. Sa kasulukuyan may relasyin po kami but several times naghihiwalay kami and nagbabalikan din po. I helped him in many ways yet minsan I felt na hindi niya ako mahal parang bale wala lang ako. He did not mind our monthsary and obviously ako ‘yung transparent sa pagmamahalan namin. I can’t let go and hold him back kapag sinasabi niyang mahal niya po ako but I am scared to be cheated again like I had sa ex husaband ko. What should I do? Should I take the risk or let him go? Thanks. More power, DJ Chloe! God bless you!

  Hi sis! I hope the “help him in many ways” isn’t all financial. Anyways, it seems to me that you are much more into him than he is into you, based on your story. Since you are a single mom, why not slow down a bit, and try to not let your whole world revolve around him. Balanse lang, sis. You still have a kid to take care of and to raise, please, don’t forget that. let him go if he’s not even bringing happiness or sparking joy in your life. ‘Di ba, sabi ni Marie Kondo, if it doesn’t give any spark of joy…let it go.

  

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