Make The Right Choice Before It’s Too Late

July 26, 2016

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  I’m Alex and I am in a no label relationship right now. Actually, naging bf ko siya 12 years ago pa, I was 22 then. Simula palang ng relasyon namin, wala nang totoo. He doesn’t know my real name, at lahat ng alam niya sakin ay di totoo. Tumagal din kami noon ng 1 year. Dumating sa point na parang naghanap ako ng mas totoong relasyon, kaya pinili ko na mawala na lang na parang bula sa buhay niya. Years passed by, nakapag-asawa ako at kinasal. One time nagkatagpo kami ng Ex ko ng di sinasadya and single parin siya until now. So, simula noon, we always call and text each other. Until I find myself in bed with him.

  I know na mali at di ito deserve ng husband ko. So, I decided to do the right thing. Tinigil ko na ang kahit anong communication ko sakanya, phone number, Facebook ,email, lahat. At gumawa nanaman ako ng kwento para maglaho na parang bula. Sabi ko nga sa sarili ko, inulit ko ulit ung ginawa ko sakanya noon, na nawala nalang ako ng parang bula, totally. I know na ginawa ko ung tama. Ang worry ko lang, baka magkita nanaman kami sa di sinsadyang pagkakataon at sabihin niya na paulit-ulit na lang akong naglalahong bigla. Thank you, DJ Chloe, for giving time for my letter. GOD BLESS you and Have a nice day!

   

  Dear Alex,

  So, who cares ano sasabihin niya? Be scared of what your husband will have to say when he finds out, and what if he finds out about this in the most unexpected way? Paano if magkasalubong kayo ni Ex at kasama mo si Husband?

  Maliit lang ang mundo.

  Anyways, sabi nga nila, we all have our own favorite mistake or maybe favorite sin. Well, yung iba nakayanan na nilang I let go ang mga yan by God’s grace.

  We all have our own shits in this life, and you trying your best to do what is right. Well, I commend you for that. But you know you can’t do this alone, you have to ask for God’s help on this. The devil knows ano kahinaan mo at paulit-ulit na mangyayari ‘to until such time when you know exactly what’ s the right thing to do and you do it!

  Right from the start, this Ex of yours doesn’t care for you. Imagine for a year, he doesn’t even know your real name? A guy who is into you will care to know everything about you, kahit pa amoy ng utot mo, cute sa kanya yun. (sorry gross hahaha)

  Look, you’re now married and believe me when I tell you this, one of the biggest regret you will have in your life is cheating on your partner. It will creep on you anytime, even if it happened a long time ago. So, if you’re doing this because you don’t love your husband anymore, please do have the intestinal fortitude to tell him you don’t love him anymore.

  But you know what, God loves us so much. He gives us all the chances to change, but only if you repent and totally turn your back from evil. You cannot undo what’s been done anymore. You can only do what is right next time you find yourself in this situation again.

  

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