You are making your life complicated

March 6, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  Just call me Mr. J from the land of the brave ang mighty. I just want to seek your advice. I’m working as a sales guy from a drug company and I can say one of the best in my field, a father of my kids, living with my partner, and to sum them up I’m living a smooth and financially stable life. And literally I can say I have everything I wanted already until there was this newly hired cute girl from our admin that I met and got close to. At first we’re just having funny conversations on our short moments every time I’m having my reporting during weekends but later on there is this tingling feeling that developed inside me for her and I can’t help it. I started to get conscious again with myself like having my diet, getting well-groomed again, etc. just to impress her. At alam ko nahahalata niya din ‘yun and even our office mates. DJ Chloe, hindi siya mawala sa isip ko kahit sinasabi ko sa kanya na mali ito at ‘di dapat pero alam mo ‘yung feeling na me nagwawala sa loob mo, longing to see and have her. ‘Di ko siya maligawan kasi I know I will be unfair to my partner and my kids (by the way, I’m not yet married) tsaka ‘di din naman siya nagpapaligaw dahil alam nga niya na may pamilya ako. Please help me, I get so jealous every time may pumoporma sa kanya at nanliligaw pero wala ako magawa. I feel so helpless and all. And ang tanging nagagawa ko eh i-like ang mga posts at i-wave siya pagnka-online siya. What will I do, DJ Chloe? Thank you. Please read this at around 11am para madinig niya.

  So J… gusto mong malasin? If you want to shake up your “I’m living a smooth and financially stable life and literally I can say I have everything” go ahead. Pursue her. Life is really simple, we make it so complicated because hindi tayho makuntento, or we want more, or we want some action. That cutie newbie in your company will turn to be a nag once maging kayo niyan and she starts demanding for your time. Of course, pag naging kayo you will have to be discreet, kailangan niyo lagi magtago, ‘no? If you have a position in your company, maybe you can afford it but if you’re into sales, baka diyan mapunta ang mga incentives mo. ‘Wag naman sana baka magsalya ka na ng gamot para masupport si cutie pie. Ayos-ayos ng buhay mo gusto mong guluhin! Haaaaay! Malaki ka na, alam mo na ano ang tama sa mali. ‘Wag kang mag-inarte na parang high school, jusme may mga anak ka na, sila na lang isipin mo. You are so blessed and yet?? Hay naku! Maayos ang buhay mo, ‘wag mong guluhin!

  

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