When a man doesn’t know his priorities

November 22, 2018

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  Hello, DJ Chloe!

  Just call me Anne. I would like to ask for your advice regarding my situation. I’m 27 years old and a graduating student who got pregnant by my boyfriend (ex-boyfriend now because nakipaghiwalay ako). So, kahit na pregnant ako with his child, nakipaghiwalay ako sa kanya because of his actions. He is a seaman and nakavacation siya ngayon. Nagsa-sideline siya ngayon sa Alabang para daw may panggastos habang wala pang line up. So, umokay ako. Then, every time na uuwi sya ng weekend, papupuntahin niya ko sa kanila. Ako naman, of course, pupunta kahit na nahihilo at nasusuka ako. Kaso nakakadisapppoint kasi pagkauwi niya, inuman agad ang aatupagin. Every weekend ‘yan ha. Every weekend na nga lang kami nagkakasama at nagkikita, inuman pa ang uunahin niya. And sinabi ko na sa kanya ‘yun, magso-sorry but still, ganun pa rin ang gagawin niya. Together with his mom, I helped him to finance his trainings kaso mukhang inuman ang priority niya. Ang point ko is, baka mamaya, mai-line up na siya tapos madiskaril naman sa medical dahil sa kakainom niya. Hindi niya ‘yun maintindihan kesyo, ‘di niya daw mahindian mga kaibigan niya. Ang nakikita ko sa kanya, hindi niya alam ang priority niya eh. Kaya kahit alam kong mahihirapan ako, hiniwalayan ko na siya. DJ Chloe, tama ba yung decision ko? Hope to hear your advice. I badly need it. Thanks and more power!

  Hi Anne,

  No one can question your decisions, if you believe it is for the best interest of your child and yourself, then what you did is right. Life is too short for us to be waiting for people to change! If that guy will ever come to his senses, then he should know that he lost a lot when he lost you. Keep your focus on finishing your degree because you will need that to raise your child and keep your eyes on your prize and that’s your soon to be child. God will always be there for you. Focus on being self-sufficient and I am so sure kakayanin mo ‘yan mag-isa.

  

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