Money Should Never Be An Issue To A Guy Who Loves You

July 11, 2016

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  Please hide my real identity. I need someone who can give me a light on my problem. I met my BF through text. He was introduced to me by a common friend. We started as text-mates and then we became FB friends. Until, I began to realize and  feel that possible pala to love a person even if you haven’t met him yet in person as long as you have constant communication.

  Ang problema lang DJ Chloe, medyo hirap siya sa buhay at madalas wala siyang pera. So, I tried to help him. I gave him some money to start a small business but he ended up using it for a relative, na-ospital daw kasi. Then, I learned his nephew got sick too. At ngayon, he’s telling me na nakasanla ang ATM niya. So, he borrowed money from me again. Binigay ko ang kalahati ng hinihiram niya. Hindi na po ako kumportable at natatakot ako everytime he would text or he is with me, may bago na namang problema sa pera. Okay lang po ba if I want out?

  Sincerely,

  Sugar Mommy

   

  Dear Sugar Mommy,
  Hahaha, some men! You know some men are very good with making business out of relationships, while some women are also good with something like this, Dear. You know what, if a man truly loves you, HE WILL NEVER BOTHER YOU WITH MONEY.  Ikaw pa ang bibigyan, ikaw pa ang tutulungan. He sees you as an ATM. His first attempt to ask money from you should have been your first cue to run for your life! I feel you ate, hahaha! May mga lalaking madrama at susubukan ka talaga nilang hiritan nang hiritan na para bang ang gwapo-gwapo nila para pagkagastusan mo sila. May mga lalaking hindi talaga marunong mahiya na sa laki ng katawan nila, mas gusto pa nilang mang hingi kaysa mag-banat ng buto.

  Drop him, Ate! ‘Di ‘yan mauubusan ng pogi problems, hahaha! Uubusin niyan pera mo, promise. ‘Pag ang lalaki seryoso sa’yo o mahal ka talaga, kahit manghingi ng pang yosi ay mahihiya yan sayo, lalo’t bago pa lang kayo.

  And I’m telling you, he will never run out of problems with money. He will never run out of relatives getting sick and he will never run out of reasons as to why he needs money! And if you don’t decide na kalasan ‘yan, you’re just gonna watch your savings go down the drain.

  Don’t get me wrong, hindi niya kasalanan that he was born poor. Ang pangit ay ang gawin ka niyang kabuhayan. Ang pera kinikita, hindi hinihingi. Ang pera pinag-tatrabahuhan, pinagpapaguran. Okay fine, hirap sa buhay? Eh di magtipid, maghanap ng sideline. Sige, girlfriend pa siya! Eh date niyo lang, kelangan niyo nang kumain, mamasahe, maging practical. If you can’t afford having a girlfriend yet, then don’t!

  

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