Move On From Her But Not From Your Child With Her

April 11, 2017

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  Hi DJ Chloe, thank you for your response. I want to share my story with you about my relationship. I have been into a seven-year relationship with my girlfriend, and sadly it did not turn out well.

  Naghiwalay kami DJ Chloe and the reason behind our break up is because of our usual misunderstandings and arguments which naging part na ng relationship namin, she was burnt out. So it resulted to our break up. But bago kami maghiwalay she was already delayed so nagduda na ‘ko na baka she was pregnant. But then, she was 3 months pregnant to me. Kinausap niya ako ulit para sabihin na pregnant siya sa akin. Naging masaya ako but all the while hindi ko alam during our break up she was seeing another man, and sabi niya na hindi na daw magwoworkout para sa amin. And I knew dahil dun sa guy, and kinausap niya lang daw ako ulit dahil magkakaanak lang kami.

  DJ Chloe, what will I do? mahal na mahal ko pa rin siya pero ayaw na niya. Kailangan ko bang ipilit sa kanya na magbalikan kami? And kung hindi man, gusto ko na magmove on para maka-get over na rin ako sa kanya. Pero paano ko gagawin kung nakikita ko pa rin siya because of our baby in her womb?

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  What I will tell you is just my opinion, okay?

  She was burnt out? – of course she will be, she was seeing someone else already, or maybe started seeing someone else.

  People have this tendency to come up with all sorts of reasons just to be able to get out of a relationship when they’re no longer interested and they’re already interested in someone else.

  She started seeing someone else, but was already delayed at that time you broke up? So may stand by? May “abangers”.

  ‘Di naman natin siya masisisi kung ayaw niya na sa’yo at ‘yung isa na ang gusto niya despite of her carrying your child. That is her life and that is her choice and I can understand why you just wanna move on.

  You can move on why not, you can actually decide not to see her again but she is pregnant with you. Nandamay pa talaga kayo.

  Wala kang choice, whether you like it or not she will be a part of your life because you’re having a child with her.

  Magmove on ka sa kanya but that is not an excuse at all for you to also move on from the child and being a father.

  With that I mean, support the kid and give the kid the right to be your child. If that child is indeed yours.

  

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