Move on from him

July 10, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  Hoping dito sa Chloe’s Inbox eh mapansin mo na po ako. Just kidding. I am one of your avid fan, ‘di lang masyadong obvious kasi I’m a kind of person that one of a silent reader ahehe. And if I can relate to your Chloe’s Inbox, di ako makatiis to comment din once in a while ahehe. But anyways, kaya po ako napa-pm kasi po I’m quite confused to my ex-bestfriend’s reaction to me. Since college days pa po kasi siya, he is my BFF and now we are both working eh madalang na po kami magkita pero we have constant communication through messenger. And then way back 2016 I confessed my feelings towards him, but his answer is probably a friend-zone. Though sabi nya nothing changes between us. So, kaya po ex-BFF ko na po siya ngayon kasi nga po malaki na po ‘yung pinagbago ng relationship namin as BFFs before. So, to cut the story short nagkita po kami this year kasi po ‘yung isang common friend namin ehh nagpabinyag. Kaya nu’ng nagkita po kami para sa akin it’s just a typical thing to have a kamustahan thing pero ang nangyari parang umiiwas siya sa akin. Kasi bigla na lang po siyang nagkaroon ng maraming reasons na ‘di na kapani-paniwala. My question po is every time po kasi nagme-message po ako sa kanya I feel that iniiwasan niya po ako, samantalang I was concern lang po talga sa kanya as her friend. Because two of the most important persons in his life already passed away. That’s why I’m so concern pero sagot niya lang is okay siya. Pero alam ko na hindi. Do you think po kailangan ko na po tigilan ‘yung pagiging concern ko po sa kanya kasi po baka ‘til now iniisip niya po na may gusto pa din ako sa kanya? Pero wala na po talaga. Hope you can read this po. Thank you in advance po, DJ Chloe. God bless you po always and hope I can visit you po in your station po soon.

  Sincerely,

  Ms. Leo

  Hi Ms. Leo,

  I do understand your concerned about him, pero minsan kasi nakakainis din ‘yun. As you’ve said ramdam mo na iniiwasan ka, ‘di ba? So, respect his wanting to be left alone, obviously he doesn’t want you to be concerned about him. There are so many things you can be concerned about. Like being concerned with your family, your own self, your health. Hayaan mo na siya, if wala ka na talagang gusto sa kanya, eh ‘di wala. So be it. Move on from him, dear.

  

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