Moving On Lessons

August 31, 2016

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  Ask ko lang po kung anong maia-advice niyo sa’kin para po ‘di ko na maalala ung ex-boyfriend ko. Ang hirap po kasing makalimot.

  Thanks in advance po. God bless you more!

  Jill

  Dear Jill,

  It really is hard to forget. Especially if marami kayong pinagsamahan at marami kang alaala sa kanya. :)

  So what do you? Throw away everything that makes you remember him or think of him. Even if that includes your underwear!

  Seriously, it takes genuine effort and it takes genuine decision to want to move on.

  And you can never move on if you constantly remind yourself of him. A few suggestions I can make:

  1. Hit the gym and focus on coming up with a new you (pagandahin ang katawan or maging fit).
  2. Get a new haircut and a hair color (a woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life).
  3. Go to a spa, enjoy a body scrub, and relaxing massage.
  4. Shop for new clothes and shoes (tiangge will do), re-invent yourself.
  5. Wear make-up, wear red lipstick (‘pag may pinagdadaanan, mag red lipstick ala Sunshine Dizon).
  6. Meet new friends or hang out with friends and have great time with them.

  Happiness is a choice and we can always choose to be happy or miserable. Ikaw din. Siya masaya, ikaw miserable. ‘Yun ba gusto mo?

  

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