My Husband Got A Sexual Disease Because Of Cheating

February 11, 2016

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

   

  I am one of your avid readers. I am married with kids. We’ve been together for almost 10 years. Our marriage is not perfect but despite of that we were still able to fix things between us.

  Six years ago, he had an affair. But he chose our family over that girl. We almost got separated during that time but I told him I am willing to give him another chance for our kids’ sake. And with a condition that the next time he does it again he will step out of our house and forget about me and our kids. Years passed and I learned to trust him again. Until one day I found out that he spent a night with a girl he just met in a bar. And the worst thing abou it is the girl left him with a disease. Again he is asking me for another chance. My mind says no. It’s enough. But I don’t know what to do. How will I tell my kids and our parents about it? How am I going to deal with this again? He can be cured, yes. But the pained that he caused me I don’t know of it can still be healed.

  In between 2010-2016 ilang times pa niya ko niloko. Sabi niya sa’kin now lang daw talaga naulit. But I don’t believe him anymore. Three times na sakit kasi ‘yung binigay niya sa’kin. This time, niloko niya na ‘ko nagkasakit pa siya and the worst is I might also have the disease.

   

  Ms. Confused

   

  Dear Ms. Confused,

   

  So you are now confused with your own decision? I thought he will be out of the house once you catch him cheating again? So pa’no? Patatluhin pa natin si Manong? Apat? Lima? Hanggang aids na ang ihawa sa’yo?

   

  The problem usually lies with us women who can’t make a stand or who can’t stand for our own decisions! Sampolan mo! Throw him out of the house! Madam, a lot of women die because of cervical cancer! And tell you what, as per my OB, males are asymptomatic. Wala silang symptoms pero carrier na sila. Isang maliit na genital wart lang sa kanila, ihahawa sa babae…boom! Full blown kay misis dahil moist tayo. Breeding ground ng bacteria ang moist environment. Resulta? Cervical cancer.

   

  Ewan ko ma’am, pero isang beses mo lang dapat nahuli binigyan mo na ng leksyon. ‘Di nga siya naawa sa’yo, ‘di nga niya kayo inisip ng mga anak mo, ngayon papaalaga pa siya ng sakit niya dahil sa kakatihan niya? A man womanizing is telling you that you are not enough, you are inadequate, you are ugly. So you decide. Alagaan mo? Or ibalik mo sa nanay niya, if you ask me? NO MORE DEAL!

   

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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