Never belittle what a lie can do

February 2, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  I’m not really good at this. But I will try na maikwento ng maayos. Kailangan ko lang ng opinion ng tao. This story happened 10 yers ago. It was summer 2008 nung nakilala ko si JD through our common friend. Habang summer naging magka-textmate kami. Kilala lang namin ang isa’t-isa sa Friendster. Nagkakasundo naman kami sa mga usap and other things. Mabilis dumaan ang summer and dumating na ang first day of school. Since it was first day of school, early dismissal. Nagkita kame that day sa isang mall sa Manila. Nauna ako na dumating and she asked me to buy band aid kasi masakit paa niya dahil sa shoes. Since that day, alam ko sa sarili ko na I like her. Nasundan pa mga pagkikita namin. Minsan hinahatid ko siya sa school and minsan sinundo ko din siya. In short, nililigawan ko na siya, habang nililigawan ko siya, lagi naman niyang sinasabi na bahala daw ako kung itutuloy ko kasi walang assurance kung sasagutin niya ako. Pero tinuloy ko pa din. Lumipas ang mga buwan okay naman kami. Until one day, nakatanggap sya ng text from me. Telling her na may girlfriend ako (yes, meron akong girlfriend during nililigawan ko siya. One night, Nabasa ng girlfriend ko text ni JD. It was just a good night message with our nicknames to each other.) She replied to my message about having a girlfriend. and this is what she said (Verbatim) “Damn you! Forget everything about us.” ‘Yan na ‘yan ‘yung message niya. Pinuntahan ko siya sa school niya the next day and asked her for forgiveness. I was waiting outside her school ayaw niyang lumabas. Classmates lang niya lumalabas at nagsasabing umalis na ako. Pero naghintay pa din ako at lumabas na siya, at napahiya ako sa school nila kasi ang lakas ng boses niya at galit na galit siya sa akin pero naiintindihan ko pinagmumulan niya. Nakipaghiwalay na ako sa girlfriend ko that time at pilit sinusuyo si JD nakaattend pa ako ng debut niya pero right after ng debut niya everything changed. She’s seeing someone else na pala and I respected that. Hindi ko na siya ginulo. Gusto ko lang malaman opinion ng tao especially girls. Nakablock pa din kasi ako sa kanya hanggang ngayon. May mga galit bang tumatagal talaga ng kagaya nitong akin? Hindi na kaya ako mapapatawad ni JD? Recently she unblocked me pala. Kinamusta ko sya apparently nakablock na naman ako.

  Mr. R

  Hi Mr. R!

  Maybe there are people whose anger lasts a lifetime and it so happened you encountered one, si JD ‘yun. If you are sincere in asking for her forgiveness then that’s enough, you can also try reaching out to her. You can try talking to her, whatever will make you feel better. Siguro nasaktan lang siya talaga, maybe she was starting to like you and you deceived her, you lied about having a girlfriend and that’s really bad. So again, if you’re really sorry about it, about what you did, then let her know and leave it at that. Maybe she doesn’t want to be bothered anymore or maybe she’s no longer into you and she has moved on.

  

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