No reason to complain for all the blessings we have

June 5, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  A blessed day to my favorite DJ. Maybe you would still remember me and some of your avid listeners. I sent you a letter before. I was the “Loving Wife” who never gave up on her “lost” husband that eventually after praying whole heartedly to God, I got an answered prayer. I am sending you again another letter and I hope that you can share it with your listeners. Thank you in advance.

  Last December 2018, I was rushed to the hospital, due to body numbness caused by stomach spasm and cramps. It was ruled out then that I have two (2) large myomas, if combined, it would measure like a three-month fetus. Learning this made me worry and depressed because one of my friends had it and it did not turn out good. I cried for a day, kept myself apart from my family and friends. At the end of that day, after crying of tons, I prayed to God and surrendered everything to Him. I talked to Him that I surrender my life to Him, His will I follow. When enlightened, I opened up everything to my family and as always, family is the best back support. During this darkest point in my life, I just prayed and prayed. And I was so happy and well-loved by my family especially my husband. He never left me, gave me all the things I needed; emotional and spiritual support. He always tells me to trust God and his favorite line: “Lumaban ka, walang problema na binibigay ang Diyos na hindi natin kayanin.” I really appreciate all the sacrifices and efforts of my husband. I went through a three-month treatment to reduce the size of the myomas to be easily removed and the uterus be saved. I have to undergo monthly treatment, blood tests and all the works. Finally, the treatment was successful; my surgery was scheduled last May 22, 2019. The procedure was successful as well. Last Saturday, the histopath (biopsy) results were discussed by the doctor, all taken out were BENIGN (not cancerous). Nabunutan po kami ng tinik. I’ve learned a lot from this BATTLE.

  1. Always take care of yourself. I was overwhelmed with the peak of my career, I took my health for granted. I’ve been experiencing stomach cramps and spasm on and off for a year but I practiced self-medication. I thought stress related lang but I was totally wrong, sabi nga nila “if symptoms persist, consult your doctor.”

  2. FAMILY is always family. No matter what your situation is, your family is always there to support you.

  3. YOU SOW IS WHAT YOU REAP. My sacrifices for my husband years ago were paid back to me. He was there for me all throughout my battle. From day one to my surgery up to this time of my recovery period. And lastly,

  4. GOD IS ALWAYS THERE FOR US. Always remember that nothing is impossible in Him. Just pray, trust Him and have faith in His goodness.

  My apologies DJ Chloe, my letter is too long. I just wanted to share this experience and I hope that I can touch other lives who are feeling so down now. Many thanks DJ Chloe and 96.3. God Bless and more power on all your shows.

  Hugs to all,

  Loving Wife, loved by a Changed Husband

  Hi there!!!

  I’m glad you’re doing okay now. I am sure a lot of women will be able to read this, and I agree with you. I also went thru surgery last year, I am 10 months post-op now, I had adenomyosis four times the size of my uterus. I had five opinions, one doctor told me it was C. After that, I was rushed to the hospital, I was so stressed out because of his being a “human biopsy” that I was bleeding profusely. I waited one and a half month before I finally got the clearance from my endo to undergo surgery. By God’s grace, I am doing well now, I have recovered well, and the biopsy result revealed it was benign. I have some aches and joint pains because of my surgical menopause, but all is well. And just like you, I was also taken care of 24 hours a day, before and after surgery by the man I’ve chosen to love. Total abdominal hysterectomy is sooo tough on women, we would really need all the support, care and help we can get to be able to recover. I know exactly what you went thru as I went thru the same, those days I was suffering, bleeding and severely anemic, I just held on to God. If I will be ask, the best days of my life were during those days. It was during those times that I was and felt closest to Him. What I went thru reminds me always that no one is invincible, and that we need God in our lives no matter what state where in. Praise Him on good days, cling to Him on dark days, and rejoice in Him all the days of our lives.

  I always tell myself, I don’t have the right to complain. I have been healed, I am doing well, I am tremendously blessed.

  

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