Do not forget your worth

February 13, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  Tago nyo nalang po ako sa pangalang Min, 28 years old. Hindi naman po sa pagmamayabang pero edukado po akong tao, cum laude po ako noong college at sa edad na 24 ay mayroon na po akong master’s degree. Kaya po naging maganda ang posisyon ko sa trabaho. Naging secretary ako ng CEO ng isang malaking construction company. Sa loob ng two (2) years, hindi lang ako naging secretary ng boss ko, naging magkarelasyon kami. Oo, mistress ako ng boss ko na 58 years old. Alam kong may pamilya ang boss ko pero wala kong magawa dahil mahal ko na siya at ramdam kong mahal niya rin ako. Alam kong mali, alam kong maraming magsasabi ng ‘di magaganda tungkol sa akin pero tao lang ako, nagmamahal lang.

  Maayos ang relationship namin kahit patago kami sa office, pag nasa labas naman kami, nagiging malaya kami dahil walang mga katrabaho na nakatingin sa amin pero syempre nag-iingat pa rin kami dahil baka mahuli kami lalo na ng asawa niya. Last November, muntik na kaming mahuli ng asawa niya dahil sa lipstick na naiwan ko sa sasakyan ng boss ko pero syempre nalusutan ng boss ko asawa niya at sinabing sa kapatid niya ito na nakisabay sa sasakyan niya. Nasundan pa ‘to ng isang beses nang tumawag ako sa phone niya at ang asawa niya ang mismong nakasagot nito pero ‘di ako nagsalita at mabilis kong binaba ‘yung phone. Sobrang kaba ko at bigla kong narealize na hindi dapat ako nakikihati, na dapat ‘di ako tinatago, na deserve ko naman sumaya na ako lang at walang kahati pero wala kong magawa dahil mahal ko ang boss ko at masaya ‘ko tuwing kasama siya pero may nasisira akong pamilya. Naalala ko ang sinabi ng best friend ko na nag-iisang tao na nakakaalam sa relasyon namin, sinasayang ko daw ang pinag-aralan at buhay ko sa pagiging mistress, tama nga daw ang kasabihang kapag matalino, tanga sa pag-ibig. Sa ngayon ay wala na ‘ko sa branch namin, nilipat ako ng boss ko sa ibang branch para makaiwas sa chismis at para ‘di kami tuluyang mahuli. Mahal ko siya, DJ Chloe pero ang bigat sa pakiramdam kung magtitiis p arin ako at ipagpapatuloy ko. Ayoko na maranasan na pangalawa lang ako. Ayokong i-date ako ng February 15 tuwing Valentine’s Day dahil nakareserve ang 14 sa tunay na asawa. Ano pong gagawin ko sa sitwasyon ko? Thank you, DJ Chloe and keep on inspiring your listeners.

  Hi Min,

  Your friend is correct, but what to do? You’re inlaaaaaab!!! And logic doesn’t seem to work when in love, and not to mention people become irrational too. But then again, I still see hope in you, the fact you get to realize you don’t deserve celebrating Valentine’s day on the 15th is already a step towards realization of what you’re really into. Actually, hindi lang February 14 ang problema mo eh, even Christmas is during 26th or 27th and his birthdays with you are usually a day before or days after, right? You said you graduated cum laude, I am sure you are highly educated, and I am so sure you were not raised by your parents to be treated second best by a man you don’t deserve. Takot ka sa misis, which makes me think you know exactly what she’s like and what she’s capable of doing, will you still wait for that time na mapahiya ka pa? So much depends on reputation, that you should defend it with your life. There is only one thing to do, remove yourself in that situation and you should do it cold duck, no need to even explain or say goodbye, but you are weak that’s why we need God every minute of our lives. God is so faithful really even when were not, infact He promised us a way out whenever we are tempted. “God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.” Maybe He’s been providing you a way out, you just need to discern. Sayang naman, dear. You are blocking blessings and God’s plan for you by staying in that losing situation. Bata ka pa, ‘wag mong antaying abutin ka ng kwarenta anyos na andyan ka pa rin. God bless.

  

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