To Not To Risk Is Already A Risk

December 6, 2016

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  This is my first time to send you a message. Naguguluhan na kasi ako masyado.

  I’m Miss G from Manila and works as CSR in a BPO in Quezon City. But please hide my identity. Ayoko kasi makita ng taong involve na ako ‘to.

  By the way I’m 39 years old and I have four kids. Single mom to make the story short. Let me begin by telling you a brief history of my problem. Few months ago I got hired to be a CSA and after a month of training I, together with the team, was introduced on the floor. Our team leader told us to sit beside the tenured ones to observe. That time I was looking for where I can sit and start my observation. I saw a man smiling at me and said, “Tara, mommy, dito ka sa tabi ko.” He introduced himself as Rick.

  Since then he supported me during my calls and we became friends. Then all of a sudden he felt so close to me. He said kung bata pa ako liligawan niya ako since I am single. He always tell me, “Ang ganda mo talaga, mommy.” And I always reply with, “Kumain ka nga. Nalipasan ka na naman ng gutom.” Kapag ‘di ko siya nakikita namimiss ko siya ng sobra. Until I realized, nahuhulog na ako sa batang to. He’s only 27. And the fact that he’s a bisexual. One time niyaya niya ako sa house niya to sleep over.

  I had second thoughts kasi baka lumikha lang ng problema. Although I have the urge to accept the offer because really in my heart I want him to lay next to me. At yakapin siya sa buong magdamag. For the past few days, naisip ko, it’s time for me na umiwas na. Ayokong mahulog ng tuluyan sa kanya. It’s not proper dahil mas mature na ‘ko, ako ang dapat gumawa ng step to correct all of these. Tama ba, DJ Chloe na step ‘yun? I know masasaktan ko sya dahil bigla ko tong gagawin pero sa tingin ko ito na ang pinakatama. Please give me an advice and more power to you guys. Thanks for the time.

  Miss G

  Hi, Miss G!

  I think you should guard and harness yourself because the guy is young and I believe he is being playful.

  Okay, I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt. Baka nga type ka.

  Pero you have to be careful, you do not know what his intentions are. Come on, I am a single mom too and I for a fact know, that some men thinks single moms are an easy prey.

  Unless otherwise game ka sa ano mang laro na gusto ng “batang ‘to.”

  But at the end of the day, ask yourself, do you need it? Will this bring you forward to a much better life? Is he even serious to accept the fact that you have four kids to feed and he will, most likely feed them too, and you as well.

  Inviting you to his house? That’s kinda scary. But if he lives alone that’s the cheapest and safest way he can get in your pants. But who knows, baka gusto lang niyang ipagluto ka ng pasta? :) Kung pumunta ka at ‘di mo nagustuhan ang maaring nangyari, well…

  1. Kusa kang pumunta hindi ka pinilt, whatever happens you’re ready for it.

  2. Kung may mangyari, it’s expected.

  3. You have kids already, he thinks you can handle it.

  If this person is sincere and is in anyway has all the intentions of getting involved with you seriously, he would visit you most likely in your place and would want to meet your family. Although I’m not saying that that is the best sign.

  

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