Now is the best time to choose what is right

July 31, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  I’m an avid fan ninyo. Please just call me Ate Girl. Hope mabasa niyo po itong message ko at mabigyan ako ng some advice. I have a long-time boyfriend. Five (5) years na po kami. He cheated on me and nabuntis niya ‘yung girl. After malaman ng girl ‘yung tungkol sa amin ‘di na sila naging okay. At ako daw ‘yung pinipili niya over her kahit nagkaanak daw siya sa kanya. Please give me some advice. Should I trust him again? Although now, nakikita ko pa ang effort niya para ayusin ang sa amin. At ‘yung girl na nabuntis niya tinigil na niya ito. Sinusustentuhan na lang po niya ‘yung bata.

  Hi Ate Girl!

  Sana pinili ka niya lagi para ‘di siya nakabuntis ng iba, ano? Well it all depends on you. If the child and the mother will not be an issue in the future para sa’yo, eh di, go ahead and start all over again with him. Daming mga issues na haharapin ka in the future if you will still choose to have a relationship with him.

  1. Support issues with the child.

  2. Presence of the mother (with whom he had sex with while in a relationship with you).

  3. Trust issues on your part kasi mawala lang ‘yan ng ilang oras sa paningin mo baka may ibang ginagawa na naman.

  4. Fear of him cheating on you again.

  5. Fear of him not telling you the truth.

  6. Fear that he might get the other woman pregnant again.

  And so on and so forth. Samantalang p’wede mo namang baguhin ang kwento ng buhay mo. Let him go. Enjoy life and have the chance to meet a good man who will not betray your trust. Ikaw po…you decide.

  

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