Open New Doors

April 6, 2017

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  I was married for six years and he left me and my three year old son for another woman. I stayed single for a year ’til my college ex-boyfriend way back 20 years ago got a chance to talk to each other again thru Facebook. He courted me again. He picked me in the office and dropped me off my house, I felt special with all his effort. Although, I know for the fact that he have two daughters and whenever I ask him about his wife, he always say that it’s over between them. Naniwala ako and I trusted him. At dahil siguro naglong ako ng attention and special treatment for a year, na fall ako sa kanya. Naging masaya naman kami until one day hindi na lang siya nagparamdam and after two more days pinuntahan ako ng wife at sinabing I ruined their family at wala daw akong konsensya. Hindi ko alam sasabihin ko. Kaya nagsorry ako at sinabi kong ang pagkakamali ko, hind ako naging mapag-imbistiga at basta na lang ako naniwala sa sinabi niya. It’s been five days na hindi siya nagpaparamdam. Nasaktan ako sa nangyari. Pero gusto ko pa din marinig ang explanation niya because that’s what I deserve, right? Please help me and give me the best advise you can. Thanks. Please don’t mention my name.

  Hi, Miss !

  I don’t think you still need to get an explanation from him.

  The wife explained it all.

  It’s good enough na tanggap mo saan ka nagkamali. Alam mong nagkulang ka sa pag-imbistiga.

  Let this be a lesson for you not to be too trusting next time.

  It’s okay if you don’t get any explanation. Yes, you deserve it, but you deserve peace more than a piece of explanation which I believe won’t be enough for you.

  So just let it go and move on and don’t forget the lesson you learned from this.

  

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