What does it really mean to live the life to the fullest?

October 19, 2018

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  Good aftie, DJ Chloe.

  I’m an avid listener of your program. I can’t imagine myself writing this letter to you. I just want to spill this out. Pleas hide my real name. Just call me Binibining R.

  I’m in a relationship for 12 years. We have three (3) kids. I can’t say na he’s my husband because it’s not. Kasal siya sa first wife niya. Okay naman kami. Financially nakakaraos naman. It started last year. I met a man thru social media sa isang group na sinalihan ko. He’s 12 years older than me. Matanda na siya as in kung i-compare ko sa partner ko. My problem is I enjoy his company. Consistent ang greetings from morning until night time. I met him personally recently lang, mga two (2) months ago. Out of curiosity I made it with him and hindi siya nawawala sa isip ko. I know this is very wrong on my part but on the other side of mind saying na it’s okay. I’m old na naman and konti na lang ‘yung life span ko. Dapat enjoy your life na to the fullest. One thing na sure ako, DJ Chloe, I love this man. I did not feel anything like this on my entire life. Ang kinakatakot ko lang ay pag nagkaalaman na. Pareho nilang hindi alam what’s going on. Ang alam ni Older Man ay single ako and he’s even sending me money. And also single din siya. Pano kaya gagawin ko, DJ Chloe? Hoping for your response kahit hindi na basahin on-air.

  Respectfully yours,

  Binibining R

  Hi Binibining R!!

  Sarap ng feeling, teh, ‘no? Parang daisy lang ulit. May kilig, may butterflies in the stomach. Kaso may takot kasi baka mahuli. Paabutin mo pa ba sa ganyan? Ikaw na rin po nagsabi, nagkakaedad na. Malawak po kasi ang ibig sabihin ng “living life to fullest,” you can live life to the fullest without hurting anyone.

  Maybe you got bored sa partner mo and this older guy came along, more experienced, probably even more stable since he gives you some cash. Pero pag bumaliktad ang sitwasyon, teh, sakit ng ulo ‘yan sobra. Baka sa edad mo magkaalta presyon ka bigla, ma-ER ka. Buti kung may health card, ayos lang.

  Anyways, matanda ka na ma’am, alam na alam mo na ang tama at mali, alam mo rin ano ang dapat mong gawin.

  You have kids and you once loved and you probably still love your partner. Habang maaga pa, bumitaw ka na sa sitwasyon na ‘yan. ‘Di ka ba natatakot? Sa panahon ngayon kung mamahiya ang tao hindi lang harapan, hanggang sa social media ipapahiya ka. Eto na lang, kung napapaniwala mo siya na single ka, ‘di kaya pinaniwala ka rin lang niya na single siya?

  Be prayerful ate, baka kulang na po tayo sa pananampalataya.

  Yes, live life to the fullest. Be healthy, think of ways of how you can help, do charity works and most of all, love your family. You are hurting them with what you’re doing.

  

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