Right Love At The Wrong Time?

September 22, 2017

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  Hi Chloe, I’m a fan. :) Been listening to you since sa Manila pa ko nagwo-work. Feel good kasi mga kanta niyo which is my ticket to wander anywhere. Now, I’m a home-based freelancer for six months na. I’m gay and I’m HIV+. I don’t know kung saan ko ‘to sisimulan but I “think” I have been dating a younger guy (19 years old) who knows my situation. We met couple of weeks ago and since then lagi (as in everyday) na kami magkausap sa IG or Messenger. I think it has been a habit to meet every Friday and Sarturday para kumain ng magkasama, manood ng sine at chumika. We talk about a lot of random things (family, school niya, work ko, mga taong nakakasalubong namin, hugot thoughts, and a lot more) which I am fascinated. However, he likes someone, na ewan ko kung gusto ko ba siya or hindi, plus meron pa siyang nakakadate who I think is a good man. I’ve been dearing to tell him pero ayaw ko kasi baka mawala ‘yung bond. Baka mawala siya. We have a lot of things in common and we have a lot of things na napagkakasunduan. I think I already made a fantacy na ayaw ko bitawan kasi ang daming what if. What if maging kami? Ayaw kong maging sagabal sa future niya. Ayaw kong maging hump para hindi niya magawa ang mga gusto niya. What if pagsinabi ko sa kanya bigla na lang siya mawala? Do you think I should tell him or not?

  Thanks,

  Blu

  Dear Blu,

  Love is a universal feeling. We love people with a kind of love we only know of and on a degree na tayo lang din nakakaalam and measure.

  Ano ba ang mas gusto mo at mas mahalaga sa’yo? Ang maging kaibigan siya o maging kayo? Siya ba, feels the same way about you?

  If you wish to let him know, then let him. Wala namang masama siguro.

  

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