Take a moment to heal

February 20, 2019

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  Hello po,

  Hirap na hirap na po ako sana mabigyan niyo po ako ng advice. Umikot po ‘yung mundo ko sa isang lalaki. Halos nine (9) years na po simula nu’ng 2012. Naging faithful po ako sa kanya ang problem tatlong (3) taon ko na po siya hindi nakikita in person, he’s been dating a lot of woman pero I remained faithful and loyal kasi akala ko makukuha pa sa prayer pero pagod na pagod na po ako. 2016 ko pa siyang huling nakita mahigit three (3) years ko na siya never na meet in person. Nawawalan na po ako ng pag-asa at minsan naiisip ko na makipagdate na lang sa iba pero I have faith on him pero still at the back of my mind, tama na, sobra na akong tanga at martir. Para akong naghihintay sa tao na never naman darating. Sa loob ng three (3) years na hindi ko siya nakita in person he made his promises to me na magkikita kami but he never did. He never tried to visit me at nalaman ko na lang he is been hanging out with another woman. Ginawa ko naman lahat para sa kanya. Sa loob ng three (3) years na ‘yun lagi kami magkachat magkausap despite the fact that we are apart. I’ve been praying to God na sana magkita kami kasi ang dami ko nang pinalagpas na opportunity and madami na akong sacrifices for him because I only want him. Pano po ba ‘to? Please. It’s 2019 na, please help. Do I have to wait with for another year? Sabi niya magkikita kami pero he cancelled it.

  Belle

  Hi Belle,

  Mahirap talagang makita ang ayaw magpakita. For three (3) years straight he’s been making excuses, I think it’s time you put your feet on the ground and decide on this matter alone. You make a decision for yourself. You’ve already given him three (3) years and the fact he’s been dating around, what else is there to wait for? It’s also not good to go on a dating spree, if you’re hurting then you should be healing and not dating. As you’ve said, its already 2019. What? You want to carry on until December 2019?

  

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