Those Little Moments

January 4, 2016

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  Good day, DJ Chloe!

  I hope you will read this and eventually give your thoughts.

  I was attached to a girl whom I met in high school about a decade ago. She’s the most awesome and wonderful girl I’ve ever met. I remember her as someone who always wanted my company. In short, we became close like siblings and eventually I felt like I’m the happiest young man then. And as the days passed, I fell in love to her. It was my first time to feel that way. It so happen that she didn’t finish the school year in public school. Later on she was forced to move to a private school where she used to study. It was her parents’ decision. That time she’s just starting to get along with our other classmates.

  I was frustrated that time and the only thing I knew was that she’s very obedient that’s why she left. After that, we still had communication. Thanks to Friendster and Facebook. But as the years went by, being away with each other, our communication became limited to the point that she treated me like a stranger. I understood that because I am already part of her past and what is important is the people she is with now. Eventually, I realized why she doesn’t reply much because she’s already in a relationship as what I have seen in Facebook.

  With that, I was hurt and frustrated especially now that she is happy with someone else. Nakakahinayang lang. Pero tama siguro na hindi na lang ako nagconfess sa kanya noon dahil baka mag-iba pa ‘yung friendship namin. What’s troubling me is that I got totally affected by her until now. Kasi ‘di ko alam kung ano ‘yung stand ko sa buhay niya. Bakit hindi na siya gaya ng dati. Nakalimutan na ba niya ako? I am really confused. I missed her very much. We could no longer talk personally because she is now in Manila, in a relationship, and its awkward.

  All I wish is that magkita ulit kami dito sa province. Pero hindi ko alam kung interesado pa siya makipag-usap sa’kin. There are other girls I met after her but she’s very different. Sometimes I feel that I was unfair with them because I always wanted to see them the way I see her. Gusto ko siyang kalimutan pero I feel that there’s a need for us to talk, to make it up to her. What should I do? Do I really need to wait more to confess to her that I love her? Or should I let her in her life because she is already happy now and moved on?

  Yours truly,

  Mr. Curious

   

  Dear Mr. Curious,

  Some people are really not able to move on, just like you Mr. Curious. Until now you still love her and want only her. You’ve waited long enough. Sana noon pa sinabi mo na agad baka nagkaroon kayo ng chance.

  Why not ask to meet her, bisitahin mo. Leave a message on Facebook and tell her you’ll be in Manila and want to touch base. And from there on, try to gauge if there is really something for you to “make up”.  Love involves risk you know. Even the risk of not being loved back in return.

  You know, sometimes, the solution to some problem is simple. It’s as simple as having a conversation and telling her what’s in your heart. You just have to be ready for her response. A lot of problems would stem up from a lack of communication. Kung nagtanong ka sana baka sinagot. Kung nag sabi ka baka may sasabihin din pala siya.

  Resolve this matter now, even if it means going out of your way to see her. Kung d’yan ka makakatulog, gawin mo. Whatever the outcome, at least, you won’t end up all your life what could have happened if you tried.

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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