When it’s time to cut off

March 22, 2019

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  DJ Chloe,

  Hi! Me again, Reena. I am writing for the second time around. During my first time na sumulat and saw my story on your page, and while reading your advice and other comments, grabe my tears were falling like a rain and thank you for making me realize what’s right. And now, I can say that by the grace of our God that I am very much happy with my husband and our daughter now. The problem is same guy. After blocking him sa Facebook, Messenger and even sa contacts ko sa phone still he finds way to reach me and he demanded not to change my number because he wants to keep in touch with me. Wala sanang problema if friendly conversation na lang talaga. Kaso alam ko na he’s aiming for something pa and hoping na magkabalikan kami and ‘di na tama ‘yun. From the time we broke up, I am aware of my mistakes and there comes a time noon na I regret na iniwan ko siya and I thought the feeling is still there pa. Na akala ko mahal ko pa pero mali pala. I just only love the thought of him and the memories we have shared. I’m always praying na maging maayos na siya and crazy feeling is I’ve been loved by someone whom I used to love before and now I cannot love him back. It hurts me that I am breaking someone’s soul. I am crushing him again for causing him unbearable pain for second time around pero I have to turn him down. Sabi ko nga sa kanya, stop chasing me, I’m not the right one for you. May pamilya na ‘ko and I’m happy with my life at alam ko na aware ka and you’re just blinded by your love not to accept the reality. Maybe your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows. As usual, he told me na kahit anong gawin ko, he’ll find way pa din daw and one day if our paths crossed accidentally kukunin niya na daw ako. I do understand ‘yung pinagdadaanan niya and I feel sorry for him kasi he’s a good man and he deserves to be happy din. Kaso I can’t give him what he wants and it’s time for me to turn the page and focus with my family. DJ Chloe, advice please. How to deal with him and I want you know how much I appreciate the positive influence you’ve had in my life. Thank you for your useful advice and God bless you more exceedingly!

  Sincerely,

  Reena

  Hi Reena,

  Ang simple ng problema mo, dear. Kinukulit ka? Pwes ‘wag kang magpakulit. ‘Di ba pag may kaaway tayo sa text the more na sumasagot ka, the more na mag-aaway kayo. Block mo. Dedmahin mo. ‘Wag kang sumagot, titigil ‘yan. HE IS NOT FOR YOU TO WASTE TIME WITH! Facebook has an ignore feature, block feature. Our smart phones also have blocking feature. So panong maco-contact ka pa niyan? If all things fail, then deactivate all social media accounts and file a restraining order. Panay entertain mo eh kaya ‘di natatapos.

  

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