Too Old

January 18, 2016

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  May asawa po ako but we are separated, not legally though, and we have three kids. There’s this girl I met at work in Batangas and I just found myself loving her so much. And I was happy when I learned that she feels the same way for me too.

  Is it right na mag mahal po ulit ako? Even if I do have obligations with my ex-wife? The thing though is this girl I happen to love also has a child. Tama po bang makipag relasyon ako sa kanya?

  Ruben

   

  Hi Ruben!

  Feelings and emotions are fleeting you know. But parental obligations are forever.

  If you are separated already and you believe there is no more hope for your marriage, I suggest you seek legal means or ways to make yourself free form the ex-wife.

  Human as we are, we will really always find reasons to love. Specially men, men cannot live without women. That’s what I know.

  Before you get into another relationship with this other girl make sure that you are capable of really having a relationship. You’re mature enough to handle one. Baka mangyari maging apat ang anak mo iba ang nanay ng pang apat. And if things don’t work out between the two of you, dalawa na bubuhayin ng single mom na ito. Maawa ka naman sa kanya kung tahimik ang buhay niya. ‘Wag mo nang guluhin pa ‘yun lang.

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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