You Have To Pass The Test

October 19, 2016

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  Hello, DJ Chloe!

  I don’t usually share my feelings with a stranger, like a DJ on the radio. But I think I have a need to tell it to someone that has a different point of view. I have an ex-boyfriend. We met three years ago. It didn’t last long. Kasi parang rebound lang ako. But I was so patient and hopeful na sana makamove on siya sa ex niya because I’m starting to fall for him. However, bigla siyang nawala. It broke my heart so bad kasi I thought after a while of being single, siya na. I cried myself to sleep, thinking what was wrong? Is it me? Am I not enough? I have a lot of questions. I still waited for him, it took me 3 years. Until earlier this year nagparamdam na naman siya. He always do the things a girl would love to feel and see from the guy that they really like/love. Why it always has to be like this DJ Chloe? Always in between, no label. I asked him out of anger and curiosity kung bakit ganoon kami. Kung bakit ‘di niya masabi sa’kin kung ano ba kami. But he just sent an emoji as a response and his damn picture with a joke saying “Wag ka naman ganyan, please.” NAKAKAINIS. So I deactivated my Facebook for a couple of months. Kakareactivate ko lang this month. I’m no longer waiting for him. I already bid him my goodbye. Because I know for a fact na wala na talagang pag-asa. I’ve been dreaming about him for a couple of nights na. But last night, I was in a state of shock when I received a message from him. OA lang siguro ako dahil nag-hi lang naman siya. But him, knowing every thought inside my head and heart before I say goodbye that time, ‘di ko alam kung ano pang motibo niya para kontakin ako. Umamin akong nasaktan ako, minahal ko siya ng ganun katagal, na wala akong ibang gusto para sa kanya kundi maging masaya siya at healthy. It’s confusing kasi I’m in the process of moving on from him. Pero eto siya nagpaparamdam. Is this some sort of a mixed signal from above? Or it’s a sign to stop? Gulong-gulo na po ako. Please, don’t mention my name. I hope you can give me an advice.

  Miss D

  Hi, Miss D!

  In my observation and in my opinion, and based on my own experiences in life, life will always give you the same situation. It will always present the same situation until you finally know and learn the right thing to do. So do not be confused. This is not a mixed signal from above. Life is clearly presenting the same situation, the same exam to you, until you finally pass the test. And how do you pass this test? You put a stop to the vicious cycle of him making you just an option! I always say this and I’ll say it again. If a man loves you, you will know. If he doesn’t, you will be confused. Do you know? Or are you confused? Now do you know the answer? So please, if a man can’t tell you enough, or he can’t define what he wants to have with you then be kind enough to yourself, never allowing anyone to take advantage of you and to make you miserable simply because you do not know where you stand in his life. Do not let any man get comfortable disrespecting you.

  

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