4 Reasons Why You Have To Create A Sex Menu

Adi Miguel

August 12, 2016

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  You know yourself very well. The things you love, the things you hate, and the things that you are curious about. And so as in your sexual life. You particularly know your points, your favorite foreplay, positions, sex fantasies, and all for your personal pleasures.

  But you won’t have that satisfying sex if you won’t share it. That’s why you we suggest that you make your sex menu.

  Sex menu is your own pleasure map to your body that you share with the people you’ll possibly sleep with. You give them a copy of the things you love, the things you hate, and the things you are curious about to let them know what turns you on. This is just another way of being honest about what you really like when you guys hit the bedroom.

  The very reasons why you have to have one…

  BECAUSE YOU NEED TO BE COMFORTABLE IN SEX

  You don’t want humping and saying, “ouch”, “oops, not there” all the time you’re in bed. You’re breaking the momentum of pleasure when you can even minimize those.

  Just remember that the comfort part must not only be yours but with your partner as well. So we still say that you ask the person involved if they’re fine with it, okay?

  AT LEAST, THEY KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

  Instead of doing the hit-and-miss in bed, let’s just get straight to what you want to do. Because you’ll be wasting time if he/she continues the licking and you’re not fine with it because it’s not arousing you. Or the he/she’s doing the caressing wrong. Or the BJ is already uncomfortable.

  We need to be honest, dear. We’re wasting time if you won’t orgasm.

  YOU CAN LEARN MORE FROM YOUR PARTNER OR OTHER PEOPLE

  Remember, this is not about you. It’s always about you and the person you’re having sex with. Once you have given your sex menu you must be ready with theirs. It’s also an opportunity to know what other people wants under the sheets. It will also help you to see if there are things that you have missed on your list.

  PEOPLE WILL BE POSITIVE ABOUT SEX

  Sex has become a taboo in our culture. Some people think that it’s something dirty or something that we have to talk about in secret. When in fact, sex is natural.

  We have to talk about it with no awkward feelings or goose bumps. Because that should really be the natural.

  Don’t be awkward about sharing your sex menu. It’s just informing the people you have a chance of sleeping with. Just in case you’ll lock the bedroom by yourselves, you are prepared.

   

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