4 Signs He Wants A No Strings Attached Hook Up

Ashley Remigio

August 12, 2015

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  He is your crush. And he knows it. You even went insane with your first convo with him. At the start, you seem to love everything about him – except his unexpected calls after 12MN.

  Obviously, he did buy the idea that you liked him. Apparently, his actions are too far from your dream fairytale and reminded you of how Dylan and Jamie started in New York City in the movie Friends With Benefits.

  How far can he go down the line? Or is he just after what he can dig down that line? These are some signs to watch out for to tell you if all he really wanted is a no strings attached hook up:

  1. HE ONLY TEXTS YOU AFTER BREAK

   If your phone buzzes anytime between 10pm and well…5am, it’s probably a booty call , unless it is an emergency. That guy knows no consideration to hit you up in the wee hours.

  2. HE DOESN’T WANT TO HANGOUT OR BE SEEN TOGETHER IN PUBLIC WITH YOU

  Eventually you noticed hes fancy private places. It’s fun to go out and be wild under the sun, but that idea brings him to a red alert. You don’t want to think he’s some kind of a heliophobic but his arguments are getting weird. Try to give him a tap and say “hey, there’s a world out there.”

  3. HE AVOIDS DISCUSSING ANYTHING DEEP

   If he never asked anything about you, your thoughts or your feelings, chances are, he just doesn’t care. There’s nothing wrong with a light and casual conversation but the lack of depth and progress along the way will hit your panic button.

  4. HE TELLS YOU HE DOESN’T WANT A RELATIONSHIP

  Some straight-forward guys might say this right from the start. If both f you agreed of a no string attached affair, the n sail away. But if not, your next action should be obvious. Don’t be trapped in the affliction of refusing to accept the obvious.

  Guys aren’t really that hard to decode. When they say or do it, most of the time they mean it. His looks might give you the power to mightily endure every road closures and traffic jams in Manila, but be wise to know the detour of his intentions.

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