5 Major Concerns Why You’re Not Yet Having Sex With Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend

Adi Miguel

November 4, 2016

• Even if you’re already at the right age, you got the savigs, and emotionally mature, one of you still holds back when making out becomes intense or hands are going somewhere where they shouldn’t be. And the reasons might be…

  

  1. SEX WITHOUT MARRIAGE IS A NO, NO!
  No matter how horny he/she gets, as long as the love of your life holds on to his/her principles, no sex until you tie the knot. But remember that it’s okay because relationships are about love and not sex alone. Scratch the thought that sex makes relationship stronger. For the married couple, yes. But if you’re not and your partner says no, respect it. And love them for whatever decision they have.

  

  2. NOT THERE, I HAVE A FUNNY BONE THERE
  This might be a shallow reason why he/she’s not ready to have sex with you but you must consider this and understand. Your partner may not be really into touching and caressing yet. And when they say that this is one of the reasons why, it is because they don’t want your intimate moment to be awkward and full of laughter instead of moans. But to some, this is exciting and fun! So it still depends.

  

  3. BECAUSE THEY SAID IT’S PAINFUL
  Tag your partner who is so fed up of being in pain that he/she even fears that pleasure might give him/her pain! You’ll hear this reason from the young lovers most of the time. Those who are told that when you have sex you’ll get hurt and be in pain. So they choose to have it when they are ready for the pain that sex may give them.

  But adults said, “lahat ng first time, masakit.”

  

  4. NOT YET READY FOR BIGGER RESPONSIBILITIES
  On the other hand, this reason comes from those who are not financially and emotionally prepared. Not really ready to take the risk. Not ready to where this action may lead them. Because whether we like it or not, sex is for reproduction and not pleasure only. And not all contraceptives will guarantee you of child-free sex. So if one of you is not ready to get into a bigger responsibility, hold back.

  

  5. INFERIORITIES AND INSECURITIES
  When one of you is not confident of his/her self, this will be a reason. For women, they hold back because they feel that their body is not arousing enough or not sexy enough for their men. They feel insecure that they hide their body from the person they love. They are afraid that they might not give what is pleasurable to their partners. For men, they care about their performance. Too afraid that they can’t give the best pleasure that they can for their woman. And sometimes…it’s all about the size.

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