5 Things Every Woman Should Know On Her First Sex

Adi Miguel

March 18, 2016

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  Someone once said, “masakit talaga pag first time.” True enough, we can’t really just run away from pain of first times. But we can always lessen it.

  For the ladies who are getting under the sheets for the first time after wedding, we know that the pleasure you are waiting for has a pain that comes with it. But as they say, “daig ng maagap ang masikap.” ;)

  1. FOREPLAY

  Female’s body produces natural lubricant. However, if the lubricant is not enough during sex, it might be a little harder for his package to get in, which might be painful for you, girl. This is the result of lack of foreplay.

  It is very important that couples have effective foreplay so that women can release enough lubricant to make the penetration smooth. And for men, the best way to arouse women is to play with their nipples.

  Men must be consistent in arousing women through foreplay. Arouse women to the point they moan when you play with the nippies. By then, penetration will be less painful for the femmes.

  2. LUBRICANT

  When you think you’re not the type that get aroused through foreplay, for safety, use lubricant to lessen the pain. It’s better to be prepared than sorry.

  3. MENTAL / EMOTIONAL PREPAREDNESS

  Again, “masakit talaga pag first time.” So when you know that it’s the right time to surrender the “Bataan”, know that it’ll be painful for you.

  Anticipate pain. After all, it’ll pay off because of the pleasure after that. ;)

  4. ORIENTED PARTNER

  It’s your body we’re talking about here!

  So if it’s really your first time, you can pause and tell your husband that it’ll be painful in your part. Tell him that don’t get too hard on you.

  Your hubby must be gentle. Others even suggest to just break the hymen on first sex and have the penetration on the next. The vagina gets swollen on every penetration and it’s hard for women. Especially if they move too much for their everyday life.

  To all men, it’s your responsibility to know that it’s her first time. You don’t want to see your wifey aching every time she moves. :)

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