Reasons Why Extrovery Women Should Date and Have Sex with Men of Few Words

December 15, 2015

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  Opposite attracts. They say, to have a good chemistry in love life one must find his or her opposite. The one who will challenge you to adjust, to become versatile in the love and relationship aspect. And for some reasons this one applies for extrovert women.

  Extrovert – a friendly person who likes being with and talking to other people : an outgoing person (Merriam-Webster Dictionary)

  Extrovert women are the what-you-see-is-what-you-get women. They are very outspoken and emotional. They speak what’s in their mind and what they exactly feel. Not conscious of what people will think of her as long as she’s honest with herself and to the people around her. Most extrovert women are the strong ones. Which means dealing with ego is part of the package.

  These kind of women need men of few words. But that doesn’t mean weakling men that they can over power. They need men who doesn’t talk much but stronger than they are. They need men who act. They need boss-type like men. And outgoing women do not only need men of few words in relationship but also in bed. Here are the reasons why…

  1.Men are literal.

  Whether he is extrovert or introvert, he is literal. He won’t understand when you’re hurt unless you tell it straight to his face. He will never get your one-liner responses until you slap him with feelings. He will never know why you’re silent just because he forgot your monthsary, unless you cry before his eyes and make him understand how important dates are to you. Yes, men are literal. Men will never be as sensitive as women. This is a fact that women should embrace before she gets into a relationship.

  With this, when he says that he wants to be with you on bed, he will make ways. Just watch and learn. He will not give you sugarcoated words. He’ll just unbuckle your bra and the next thing you know your legs are tired.

  However, when he also says that he wants you to know his parents and friends, he is serious about that. And it won’t take years to get you guys there. When he says it, tomorrow or next week will be the latest.

  2.Whatever he says is precious and feels like you’re in a movie.

  Knowing that he is a man of few words, whatever he tells you is music to your ears. You won’t see much reactions when you write him a love letter. You won’t notice happiness when you do something amazing. He doesn’t even say a thing when you go on exhibition on bed. But when he says words of appreciation or love or being thankful for having you, you will feel that it’s sincere. You will know that it’s true. For him, it doesn’t have to be always it has to be real.

  3.Action speaks louder than words.

  Men of few words are men of action. They do not want explanations. They do not want justifications. They just want to get it over and done with.

  It’s a must to him that he gives you satisfaction when you make love. He thinks that he should be strong for you always because he is meant to protect you and make you feel secured. Men of few words are the men who won’t say how manly they are because that’s already innate. They are born with it. It’s their default setting since birth. They just do it.

  4.Longest patience

  Because you are so busy having fun and being the woman you should be; because you are so career-oriented; because you have PMS; because you are hyper-active you need him. He has the longest patience ever told. He doesn’t get bored waiting when you shop. He understands that you love your work. He doesn’t leave you on your PMS. He joins your hyper-activity. And he’s happy with that.

  Dear extrovert woman,

  He’s the best guy to date because he will listen and when he listens he will get to know you. He’s the best partner because he won’t leave you in your down times. He’s your support. He’s the best person to make love with because he won’t make you do his part. He will give you the satisfaction that you always need and ask for. But never make him go beyond his limits. Never make him give up on you. As much as he takes time getting to know you and making you happy, return the favor. Take care of him. When you find this guy, he is your soulmate. Don’t get tired of chasing him, of his heart.

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