What really happens after the break up?

Mitzi Santos

October 2, 2020

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  Nobody likes the feeling of having to end a relationship with their partners. May it be a toxic relationship, or a great one, once you decided to call it quits, it will really tear you into pieces.

  Regardless how long you two have been together, a breakup is a breakup. But what exactly happens after the breakup? Do you just listen to The Script, do you cry your heart out, or do you just move on? Let’s find out here.

  As illustrated on Arkitekyuklid page there are “13 Things that Women Do After a BreakUp.”  Arkitekyuklid is a known Facebook page with almost over 250 thousand page likes. It started around May 14, 2019. The page aims to tell the people the goodness of God through this page. Despite of your failures, God is always in the midst, always reaching out to you.

  Here are the common things women do after the breakup:

  There’s a lot of crying

  Pinaka-unang ginagawa ng mga babae ay siyempre umiyak. Okay lang na ilabas mo lahat ng sama ng loob mo sa pag-iyak kaysa naman maipon lang yan, diba? :)

  Posted by Arkitekyuklid on Friday, September 11, 2020

   

  It really is heartbreaking to call it quits with someone whom you have spent a lot of time with. Whether you are the one who initiated the breakup or not, it still hurts to part ways with someone who you thought you will be spending forever with. It’s okay to cry over the things that you remind you of him like a song, certain food, or even the place you spent your anniversary at.

  You turn to food for comfort

  Asahan mo na, kapag broken sila, kakain yan. Broken eating yan kasi feeling nila pagkain nalang ang nagmamahal sa kanila. :(

  Posted by Arkitekyuklid on Friday, September 11, 2020

   

  There is a reason why the term “comfort food” is invented. When things go wrong, what do you usually do? You eat. You eat your heart out. It seems like the only thing that is constant in your life is food. Food is life after all, right?

  You watch sad movies

  Di ko alam kung anu-anong movie ito. Basta nakakaiyak. Yung tipong nakaka-relate sila sa pinapanood nila. Para bagang sila yung bida sa pinapanood nila. XD

  Posted by Arkitekyuklid on Friday, September 11, 2020

   

  Let’s admit it, you want to drown yourself more with sorrow. Feeling sad? Make yourself even sadder by watching sad movies. Sad movies give you the satisfaction and makes you feel like you are the main character. In pain, in tears. Can you still remember your go-to sad movie?

  New hair, New Me

  Ewan ko ba. -_- tuwing heartbroken ang mga babae, laging nagpapajupit. XD Pansin niyo rin ba? Siguro tanda yun ng pag-GUPIT ng relasyon na iningatan nila.

  Posted by Arkitekyuklid on Friday, September 11, 2020

   

  They say girls who cuts her hair is currently moving on. Where is the lie, though? A change in the girls’ hairstyle signifies that there is a big change in their lives. It’s proven and tested. *winks

  BFFs to the rescue

  Ay eto maganda. Iba-ibang klase yan na mga kaibigan. May mga kaibigan na warfreak na handang sugurin yung ex mo, may mga…

  Posted by Arkitekyuklid on Friday, September 11, 2020

   

  Whenever you don’t feel good, you friends will surely be there to the rescue! They will come running well not physically for now since there is a pandemic but virtually. They are always to the rescue! Some will cry with you, some will make fun of you, and some are ready to go to the ends of the world to avenge you to your ex! The warfreaks are our fave for sure!

  Travel

  Yan yan. Eto na yung magha-hanap sila ng enjoyment sa buhay. Yung gusto magmuni-muni at magisip-isip. Kadalasan puntahan, baguio or tagaytay para malamig, kagaya ng nanlamig nilang pag-ibig.

  Posted by Arkitekyuklid on Friday, September 11, 2020

   

  “Where do broken hearts go?” Feeling broken, go travel! This is one of the go-to solutions of the brokenhearted. But during this pandemic, all you can do is travel from your bedroom to the kitchen and sometimes you can go to your balcony for some sight-seeing. Out of towns can wait. Safety first!

  Improve herself

  Oh diba! Version 2.0 na siya oh! Kasi napabayaan mo na sarili mo noong nasa relasyon ka pa kaya ayan binabalik mo yung dati mong alindog haha. :) Pero sa totoo lang umaasa ka pa na mapansin ka niya hahaha.

  Posted by Arkitekyuklid on Friday, September 11, 2020

   

  Self-improvement is a good diversion. It makes everyone better when they look good. New hair, new style of clothing, new pair of shoes, and sometimes a new hobby comes handy, too! Why sulk up in the corner when you can improve yourself?

  Put herself out there

  Eto na yung maghahanap ka na ng pu-puno sa butas na iniwan sayo ng ex mo. Kaya hahanap ka na ng rebound. Sobrang mali….

  Posted by Arkitekyuklid on Friday, September 11, 2020

   

  Break ups can be hard but don’t let it stop you from loving again or from putting yourself out there. It doesn’t have to right away. It can be weeks or months after your breakup. Take all the time you need to heal. Believe that one day you will start to put yourself out there and begin trusting and loving again.

  Seek healing and comfort from God

  Pinaka the best na gawin kapag broken ka. Hanap ka ng comfort sa nilalang na lumikha ng puso mo. Si mark zuckerberg ba…

  Posted by Arkitekyuklid on Friday, September 11, 2020

   

  Always lift up your problems to God. God’s plan may not mean anything now for you, but it always means to prosper you. Talk to God through your prayers.

  How about you? What do you usually do after a breakup? Let us know in the comment section!

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