When Love Was Just All About Timing And Waiting

Raven Austria

April 13, 2016

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  Going into any kind of relationship is sometimes always tough. And things don’t get easier as time goes on. Pain is certain, happiness is a choice and whether you like it or not you have to be aware that sex is inevitable (Nowadays).

  Girls always dream of their “fairy tale” love story (when there’s no such) while guys are always open to this kind of excitement. Sex may dominate our deep thoughts, little monkey dreams, and late night fantasies about love.

  But the reality is at the back of our naughty mind, we start to think and imagine stuff such as, “how, where, and when not to actually have sex with someone?”

  DON’T MAKE “SEX” AS THE CENTER OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP

  Do not ever make your relationship dependent on sex when in the first place, it must actually focus about feelings and emotions. It’s important to cultivate first a strong emotional connection with your partner — this deeper bond will continue to keep you both a true and healthy relationship.

  PHYSICAL ATTRACTION FOLLOWS

  “No one falls in love with your personality at first sight, because at the end of the day all we care about is looks” — which I totally agree. BUT, you have to bear in your mind that, if you are looking for a committed relationship, getting to know his/her personality and values first is very important. Until you feel an emotional connection with him/her then it can make the physical connection even better.

  THINK LONG-TERM

  If you’re wondering if you’re ready about having sex, TRUST ME, you’re probably not. Slowing things down will not only give you a chance to decide but also help you build a stronger connection between you and your partner. If you’re looking for a long-term commitment, you may want to wait until you are quite comfortable with each other.

  Imagine what things (situations) could bring. It may bring you both happiness and sadness, but none of them will last. In one snap, everything could be something you haven’t expected from the start. Some may have lost and MOST may stay lost forever.

  It’s amazing how a certain situation may be smooth from the start, and as you go through, you’ll never know what’s inside unless you’re too brave to face it.

  Remember, think twice because at the end of the day you’ll realize that this was just all about timing and waiting.

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